so. What the F. why force children into existence to be despised and abandoned? I am the best argument for abortion that ever was. If you don’t really want a child, and desperately desire to call a new life into being, then DONT HAVE KIDS!! This planet has more than enough warm bodies. What it needs is love. We owe it to any children that are born to be called into being through desire and longing for their existence.
I was not born. I was spawned like a salmon and emotionally abandoned. My mom only wanted me because she didn’t want my dad to have something she did not have. My dad was only concerned with his feelings. My mom’s brother raped me because he said it was his responsibility to teach me since I didn’t have a dad. When I went to my mom for help she called me a liar and a whore. My uncles and aunts told me to never tell because their spouses might hurt the rapist.
I thought I had turned my life around and redeemed my sucky past until my spouse of 25 years found his first “love” on Facebook. He told her that he had never forgotten her it had always been her he loved. He broke up with her before he and I met. But after 25 years and 2 kids he wanted only her and wanted babies with her. His mom told him he “had to be happy” so when her granddaughter found out and wanted her :”grandma to straighten out her dad”. all I could say was, “good luck with that”
I can’t die because it would damage my kids, but why live? I can’t afford rent. I lost my home in the divorce. He says the paltry $700 a month spousal support is “taking all his money” yet he just got a $500 a month raise. My temp job will run out in less than a year, and I will have no home and no job. I am 57 and too old to be a good job prospect.
What is the f***ing point? Really! in this country it is a crime to be poor. So please tell me what is the point.
Why be born? Why live?
Live hurts and then you die.